#1 - Sept. 8, 2010, 9:05 p.m.
The Parental Control settings you designated are accurate, Xioni.
In order for the settings to take effect you need to completely log out of the Forums, clear your cookies and cache in your internet browser, and attempt to log back into the Forums and update the thread.
Do the same thing in-game for the Real ID issue – completely exit the game to your desktop, re-launch the game, and see if you can see any friends visible.