#0 - Sept. 4, 2006, 10:06 p.m.
Well, I've heard of peoples girlfriends cheating on them in this game, I can think of one example clearly, because I knew all 3 that were involved in it. I never expected it to happen to me tho. I was with a girl for 3 years, and me and her were invited into Hillpeople, which is a really nice guild, very tame and a good bunch of people, or so I thought. Nerphherder/Thalila is one of the council members in that guild, and he and my x-gf Xanthasghost/Rhapsodi, began an online relationship while she was still living with me, sleeping next to me in my bed every night. I had no idea what was going on, untill it was too late. She started going on walks, and I never have enjoyed walking, so I didn't go with her at first. the first day I did, I became suspicious that something might be going on, because she really didn't seem like she wanted me to go with her, which I thought was odd, because we went out for dinner that night and I was trying my best to have a glorious evening with her. On our walk, she started getting text msg's on her cellphone, and I asked who it was, and she tells me 'A friend' which seemed odd, because I know most of her friends by name. That night, I looked into it further, and found her emails were filled with letters, going back and forth about how she was going to move out and get a place so they could spend time together when he flew here (he lives in Florida, and we live in Oregon, so we're talking seriously long distance relationship here), and that they "couldn't wait to explore eachothers bodies." So i woke her up at this point, and told her she was moving out the next day. I don't need or want a lying or cheating or deceitful woman in my life. On top of all this, he flies here, and she goes and spends the night with him in a hotel the very first night he arrives in town... What does that tell ya...
I was warned a long time ago that she was flirting with guys in game, one of her friends told me about it, but i brushed it off because I trusted her. I actually have proof now that she WAS flirting with this other guy long ago, and that it was apparently getting serious back then too. Not sure why she didn't hook up with him, but i kinda wish she had, because then she would have been out of my life, not wasting my time a lot sooner, but I guess she was using me for a roof over her head or something like that.
Anyways, It's over, and good riddance... I hope that I am not going to be all jealous in my future relationships because of Xanthasghost cheating on me, but who knows.
I trusted her, she lied to me.
I respected her, she went behind my back and deceived me.
I loved her, and she made plans to screw other guys while living with me.
She said she wanted to stay friends after we broke up and gave me her new phone number, then didn't answer when I called.
I say screw it, the 2 of them can goto hell.
