My girlfriend left me for a warlock.

#1 - Feb. 20, 2014, 6:49 p.m.
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ello wow community!

I'm writing this because i really need help and i don't know where else to go.

It all started about a year ago when I was still playing a paladin. I was just hanging around in stormwind not doing anything speciall when this warrior came up to me and asked me if i wanted to do some bg's, just for fun. I could tell she was still new as she still had quest greens and stuff, but as I didn't have anything else to do I joined her.

It turned out to be really fun and she was actually quite skilled. We had alot of fun and played for hours till the sun went down and we both logged off to go to sleep.

The next they she sends me a message, asking me if I wanted to do some more battlegrounds, and so we did.

This went on for a few weeks untill one day when she asked me if I wanted to play 2v2. I was shocked at first, because even though I had done quite a few arenas before, I knew this was special. I said yes and she invited me to her team and placed ourselves in queue. I could tell she was nervous as she was barely saying anything and shortly before the game started she told me it was her first time. I told her to just relax and then we played the best arena I've ever played - it was simply magical.

From there on everything was just great and we played together almost everyday!

Untill one day, when I told her I was quitting my paladin to play a priest instead. She told me she didn't mind, and was quite happy for me, but I knew something was wrong. And something was, because after that she didn't want to play bg's as often, and most important, we barely played any 2v2 anymore.

Time went on and cataclysm came. This is where things became really weird. We both leveled together to 85 but once we got there, she didn't seem to want to do anything to me. I asked her if she wanted to try the new heroics, but she said she wanted to level her blacksmithing. I asked her if she wanted to do battlegrounds, but she wanted to try out archeology instead.

I thought I'd give her some time and things would go back to normal but it didn't. She simply kept doing things for her self and came with new excuses all the time to not play with me. I got more and more frustrated and one day I come online and find her playing 2v2 with a warlock.

I was furious and asked her why she did it. It turned out that she had been doing some battlegrounds and heroics with this warlock while I was offline for quite some time, but it was never her plan to play 2v2 with him, it just happend.

Now I'm sitting here alone, trying to decide if I should just put her on ignore and never speak to her again or just try to work things out.

What should I do?!
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#12 - Feb. 20, 2014, 7:44 p.m.
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As it’s against the forum rules to recreate locked threads, we’re locking this one too.