Girl problem

Hello,

I have a girl in my guild who I am attracted to, we first started talking in a random HC s a few months ago and since then we have gotten to know each other well and regularly farm heroics together on vent.

She wants to add me on facebook but I am having a dilema, I am a married man with 3 kids and I sent her pictures of one of my children pretending it is me, I know it was wrong to tell the lie at the first place but I really at first needed gold (don't ask please) + I was desperate to gear up since I planned on migrating to play with my wife and kids on argent dawn, my wife doesn't read forums fortunately so I don't have to worry about her finding out but if anyone from argent dawn reads this don't spam trade about it my kids browse 4chan regularly and these forums.

Last week in ICC25 me and this girl ended up going AFK in raid we kept whispering eachother then one thing lead to another and we ended up going to the cyberspot however we were caught by one of our officers after about 30 minutes and got gkicked.

There has been a few times in the past month when my wife has asked me who I am talking to on my microphone and I have just claimed it was one of my sons (he is at uni), however I fear she suspects something because I was talking dirty and she overheard and I just said she is sick-minded and has issues.

The problem I am now facing is I don't know what to do...

She wants to migrate to another realm with me and I don't know what to do, do I migrate with her?
or do I just migrate to argent dawn and play with my family?

Thanks.